Marriage Messages For Cards My In-Laws Write Encouraging Messages About My Problems In Our Christmas Cards. Can I Ask Them To Stop?

My In-Laws write encouraging messages about my problems in our Christmas cards. Can I ask them to stop? - marriage messages for cards

For each party or an anniversary that I write my wife's family always a personal message on a card to us ...
It is very pretty, but the problem in recent years, my wife and I had our share of problems, often problems in the message. Since we have a Christmas card that financial difficulties and problems in marriage and in my head, I think, "wow really need to remember that in my Christmas card. It is reported an encouraging message, but at the same time I began to a sense of fear whenever I need a letter of the law ... I can then put the card in the fridge next to the letter from my parents and my grandmother to get, want to read it?

Shall I bring to them alone, or in any way to arouse your interest? If I draw your attention, I asked my wife to speak for them or what?